My husband (28M) and I (28F) have been married for 4 years and been together for 11 years. We also have a son(1M) and expecting another one soon. I love and care for him very deeply but lately I've been feeling like I take care of everything around the house from cleaning, cooking meals and take care of the baby. I also work too, I'll admit he does work more hours than me but I'm always getting things done even when I am tired. I also am the one scheduling our son's doctors appointments and I have to constantly remind my husband when they are eventhough I write it on our giant calendar in the kitchen. I even wrote a cleaning schedule for us to keep track of. I explained to him that he lives here as much as I do and the least he can do is stay consistent with everything at home like how he's consistent with his work and gym schedule. It's also to take some load off my shoulders since I'm currently pregnant and epileptic. And share some of the responsibilities with me when it comes to our son. I told him this multiple different times and his response is always either, "oh I feel so useless now but I'll do better." Or he just stays quiet most of the day. Unfortunately, it goes back to the same routine. His excuse for not doing it is always telling me he's stressed and tired. At this point, it kind of feels like he doesn't want the responsibilities of a father or husband but wants the title. Idk what else to do, I feel like he won't listen to me unless I'm a funny video saying it.