Hi, I m(22) have been with my gf(25) just shy of a year. Today she told me that she’s going to a rave with a M(18) that’s her mums bosses son who she doesn’t even know and is happy going. I wasn’t too happy as i know she likes doing molly ect and i don’t feel comfortable with her going. Also to add to the fact she recently said no to a holiday i was going to pay for both of us for our anniversary and also saying no to going to her home town for a couple days so idk if im in my own head. Thoughts how do i go about not being jealous or being able to have a conversation with her about it without her being upset or none talkative as i feel like its quite common when talking about my feelings she tends to get upset from?
Edit: I spoke to her about my feelings of it and she dismissed them and is now not talking to me at all