I’m a guy in my late 20s. I’ve been masturbating for around 10 years and never had sex before. Recently I started dating, and things are going well.
We decided to do sexual stuff without penetration. She gave me handjobs and oral. We spent a long time (hours) and I enjoyed it, stayed hard, but I couldn’t orgasm. This happened on two different days.
When I came home and masturbated by myself, I was able to finish like usual.
I’m confused and a bit worried. Is this normal for someone new to partnered sex? Could long-term masturbation cause this? Does this usually improve with time?
Would appreciate experiences or advice. Thanks.