Hey everyone! I’m looking for some specific advice on how to be more dominant and "take charge" in the bedroom.
I’ve realized that I struggle a lot with multitasking. For example, when I’m giving a handjob, I get "tunnel vision"—I focus 100% on the movement of my hand and nothing else. My guy has mentioned he’d love it if I did multiple things at once (eye contact, using my free hand for his balls, dirty talk, etc.), but honestly, as soon as I try to add a second layer, I lose my rhythm and blank out.
I want to feel like I’m in control of the situation rather than just "performing a task."
How do you stay "in the zone" while doing more than one thing?
What are some high-impact moves I can add with my free hand or body that don't require crazy coordination?
Please share any tips, tricks, or specific videos/creators (NSFW is totally fine/preferred) that demonstrate the "flow" of taking charge and managing multiple sensations at once.
I'm ready to step up my game, so don't hold back on the details! Thanks!