Hello,
I am wondering what are the questions you ask that help you understand the person you are seeing/dating better?
I don't mean some of the direct questions about their job, life experiences/hobbies. But more about the questions that can help you understand better who they are as the person?
For instance, some of the questions and statements that come to my mind (I would use statements to share how it is for me so the guy can also share his experience or his point of view):
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Do you usually assume that most of people have good or bad intentions? Do you give benefit of doubt to people or they have to rather earn your trust?
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Have you ever cut your friendships? Why did it happen?
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I wish I could just talk to strangers in the street, that it would be considered normal and not weird.
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Understanding for what he wants to be loved/what he loves/values about himself the most.
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I love my friends and consider my friendships to be my biggest achievement in life. (Curious to hear what his reaction would be and his thoughts on it, and what is the key priorities in his life).
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This one is tough to just ask or say but recently it somehow happened that I shared what my biggest regrets in life are/something what I cannot forgive myself.
Surely I am missing lots of interesting questions the answers to which can tell a lot about the person. So I am curious what are your questions.