I (23F) had a threesome a few weeks ago with a 23F and 27M. We talked about boundaries beforehand, but the experience was really uncomfortable. He struggled to keep up, couldn’t do oral, and even tried anal after the other woman clearly said no. The condom didn’t fit properly and kept slipping, which made me anxious. I ended up with an infection the next day (I’ve since been checked and I’m fine now).
What’s bothering me most is how grossed out and unsettled I felt afterward. I’m very sensitive about hygiene, and I discuss this with him beforehand and when he came he wiped his dick and throw napkins next to my pillow, i almost throw up. Ever since then, my sex drive has completely disappeared. I used to be very sexual, like horny 24/7, no day offs and now I can’t even touch myself.
Has anyone dealt with something like this? How do I move past it?