Has anyone else gone through a really rough patch in marriage and got through it?

Me and my husband are not good at the minute. Well it’s him and he’s making me in a bad way.

I love him completely and it’s him who has said he’s not happy and I get the feeling he doesn’t love me.

We were talking about a new house and he starts saying we could split up in the future. Then started saying he could die at anytime?! WTH!? And then we spoke about a bigger house for a family and he says he’s too old. And he said this infront of my mum and I got upset and he then left for a few hours. I’m annoyed my mum seen me upset too

His mam isn’t well and has a recent terminal diagnosis so unless it’s to do with his mum too but pushing me away.

He keeps telling me it’s him and not me.

He was fine the other day with me. He was all over me saying he wanted kids and none of this. Now he’s in a very bad form and even his mum and dad mentioned to me he’s in a terrible mood.

He had a tractor accident in November and he broke his wrist and hit his head. He mentioned his wrist today and how he can’t go for a run with me because it’s icy and couldn’t risk slipping because last week he fell at work and couldn’t save himself with his wrist so he hurt his knee. Unless this is also causing his such anger and bad mood too ?

Also last week I wasn’t impressed when I seen a girl was calling him who had a thing for him last year. A bit too much for me and he knew I didn’t like it. I questioned him on it and he said he didn’t know what she was calling him for. Then I find out the day before he seen her at a pub.


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