Hey there.
I have been dating this cute trans chick for the past 2 months and we landed in bed last weekend. It was all kinda new for me ( I am a cis guy) but I enjoyed it and she did too. I was topping her last time and she asked if she could be top next time. I said yes and she told me a bit about how I clean my asshole before anal. I honestly feel a bit afraid of our next date because I don't want her to be disgusted if I don't clean enough or if anything goes south. Don't get me wrong I am equally parts excited. I told her that too. She said that accidents can happen and that it's not too bad but I don't know… I want to be prepared so chances for such an accident are low. Do you guys like…test your ass before you have anal sex? How do you make sure you are fully clean back there?