I know this is a common question so let me know if this isn’t allowed, I just couldn’t get an answer for my specific situation based on other posts. I’m 21, transmasc but AFAB. I’ve never been able to cum during sex or feel aroused from clitoral stimulation. I have an “innie” vagina so it’s hard to get to in the first place, and even when I do rub it I don’t feel any pleasure. It’s no different than touching my arm.
The only time I can cum is when I masturbate, but I don’t masturbate normally. I forget the name for it, but I squeeze my legs together real hard, usually with a blanket between them for leverage, and if I think about something that turns me on I just keep thinking about it while squeezing and that usually gets me to cum. I know there’s a specific term for that but I don’t remember what it is.
Anyways, I’ve tried using a vibrator and I still don’t feel anything. The closest I can get is when my G-spot is fingered and I squirt, but no orgasm. Is something wrong with me? Is there a way for me to be able to feel pleasure and cum during sex? It’s made sex not enjoyable anymore because there’s no end point, it just kinda feels good when I get fingered and that’s it. It’s underwhelming and disappointing. Is there anything I can do?