I got pregnant by a friend. We were not a couple, but we talked about the situation and both agreed to terminate the pregnancy.
I went through a surgical abortion and had to face the physical and emotional process almost entirely on my own. Even though he knew I was vulnerable and needed support, he was not present during the hardest days.
Shortly after, he started a relationship with someone else, which made him distance himself even more. I am not trying to blame him or create conflict, but I feel deeply hurt for having to deal with the physical and emotional aftermath without his support, especially considering that it was a decision we made together.
He still messages me occasionally, but the messages are very generic. In these past two weeks, that has been the most involvement he has shown. He tells me he is very busy with work, but in reality he spends most of his time with the other girl. I don’t know what to do. Can you me give some advice?