Well, we just had a “first” in 22 years of marriage. My husband and I (42m/43f) have been looking for ways to spice up our marriage lately, and it’s lead us down some pretty kinky paths, some of which I never would’ve thought we’d do together even a year ago.

Turns out, one of those “ways” is him meeting a woman to have sex at a seedy motel for an affair in the middle of the day.

I got a text message from him this morning telling me his plans, along with all of the sexual things he was planning to do to her later this afternoon. The plan was for them to meet about lunch for maybe an hour since he had meetings with clients most of the day. He apparently found this website that lets you book a room at a normal hotel by the hour. Real quick sneak over to the hotel, back to his office before anyone is wiser. Just the thought of him at a hotel mid day having sex really got me worked up.

Oh yeah, I should probably mention the woman he’s meeting is me. 😂

It’s been pretty wild since we started doing things like this. What are some crafty things you’ve done to add some extra?


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