To try and keep the story short, I got SA’d a little over a year ago, and my now boyfriend is friends with him. The incident really affected me mentally, and put me in a very depressive state . I’ve been depressed for years, but I’ve never felt that affected until that happened. I met my now boyfriend this past summer about eight months after the incident. I was not aware that my boyfriend was friends with my rap!st until a casual conversation he mentioned him one day. I stayed quiet until I was comfortable enough to tell him what happened. So when I did, I told him how badly affected me and how I felt uncomfortable with him continually being friends with him. I just feel like if he had respect or love for me then he wouldn’t continue with their friendship knowing how badly it hurt me. I have mentioned on multiple occasions that I want him to remove him from his contacts and stop talking to him. He has ignored my request every single time. How do I continue?