My boyfriend (20m) and I (19f) have started exploring each other sexually. We’ve been together for a few months now, and we’ve had a few conversations about these sort of things. This is my first time doing anything sexual, but he’s had sex with a few girls in the past. On my first attempt at giving him a blowjob, I realised I can’t create suction at ALL. As a note, I do have braces (due to my teenage years of oral neglect) which I find makes it harder to wrap my lips around my teeth to stop from accidentally hitting him. I just need help – why can’t I create suction? And how do I fix it? I was on it for a minute or two just trying to figure out how to before I gave up. THANK YOU!
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Suction is not the problem. I guarantee he should appreciates you not cutting him with the braces but what you are doing is great because you are doing it. Use your hand/hands to and let’s just stop thinking he’s gonna get off from your mouth only. Everyone is different let’s just let him know unless he wants scars on his dick a bj to finish prob is not his first choice. You guys will figure out what works maybe cum on your tits face or a shirt it’ll happen he won’t refuse help and if he does oh well lol.
Well you know how to use a straw ? It’s the same and not the same.
Just take his tip in your mouth then try to suck it like a straw.
My wife does it when she wants to intensify the Bj. She suddenly stop boobing her head, close her lips on my tip then she suck jt hard for 1-2s. It feels like a burn. Then she takes me deep (feels like cold water).
She knows it makes me usually cross another step to the orgasm.
You’re brand new to this, so give yourself grace.
Suction isn’t everything, especially at first, and braces definitely make it trickier.
Go slow, use your hands, and focus on comfort instead of “doing it right.”
You can also talk to him, most guys are happy you’re even trying.