Good evening everyone, I’m a male and 25 and have been with my wife (borderline ex wife) for 7 years. We’ve recently filed for divorce and had some nasty back and forth while she moved away. We did it over the phone (even longer story) I feel like I should add that in there. I recently came home for Christmas to see our daughter since I’m military, and we hung out as a family with Christmas Eve church and dinner afterwards. I was set on being done since she left in a way that really hurt me, but after being with them again I’m having mixed feelings about really going through with the divorce. Do I tell her how I feel and ask for similarities in our feelings or do I just let it be? My only concern is what if it’s just simply counseling or maybe even just bringing more of God into our relationship? Please be nice. I’m very torn on this and seeking real advice from people that have been in similar situations and how they turned out. Thank you!