Me and my partner (M27 & F25) of three years – are currently in the process of moving house at the moment. The move is mostly because of my work. I currently WFH but my office is asking me to come into the office more so I wanted to move to be closer to work. Now my partner is having to quit their part time job in order to move with me. I am sick with worry and anxiety about the finances since our new flat is very expensive (being in london), although still on the cheaper end compared with others as its quite far out the center. During the house hunting process I had serious doubts and worries about the whole thing as my partner wasn't landing any jobs and still hasn't. I asked them several times if they want to go ahead, and that i'm more than okay with us cancelling plans, but they continued to agree with the move, and so as we were both very busy, everything sort of happened all at once and now we are moving.
TLDR: I cannot afford to cover me and my parters share of the rent together on my salary alone. But as my partner isnt working and cant find a job i feel i have to suppor them financially with any of my remaining money i have. Is this wrong ? Would be good to get opinions on this as to what i should do. Its really stressing me out.
thanks