I’ve been married for 3 years and my wife will have sex maybe once a month. She doesn’t do BJs and she hates when I go down on her. When we do eventually have sex it’s the same thing every time. No foreplay. Just sex that doesn’t feel good. I’ve confronted her multiple times through the years and she just refuses to get it fixed. She’s a teacher and she’s stressed nearly 24/7, and that makes it incredibly hard for her to want it. I do nearly every chore in the house. I’ve tried everything and I don’t know anymore. I’m depressed and hurt.