We’ve been with each other for about a year now and im a lowkey guy, no instagram, no tik tok, I’m pretty much in the shadows. Her on the other hand is the opposite, aspiring influencer, over 20k ig followers etc, and it’s all cool, it’s kinda like out of sight, out of mind for me.
The thing tho is she has no problem wearing very little clothing. Whenever she feels confident, she throws on the least amount of clothing to go out, at the gym she has a tube top on with short shorts, and like I said, out of sight, out of mind. We don’t go to same gyms, I respect her space. It’s been bothering me how she dresses when we’re out bc believe or not, it’s brought unwanted attention, I’ve had to warn guys who have touched her and stuff, it’s that bad.
Yesterday she wore this very revealing top to a New Year’s Eve event where people dressed quite nicely. I was getting sized up all night and I hate that shit. While I’m 6’4, 215lbs, I don’t like attention and I don’t wanna ever get in a fight for a girl, that’s not something I’ll do.
When we got back, I finally called her out on it saying that dressing appropriately for the events we go to is important bc when you dress inviting, trust me, men will bite or will start sizing me up. It’s only a matter of time till you get me in a situation where I’ll have to fight or walk away and look like a b*tch, and either of those situations suck.
She started crying and telling me I won’t tell her what to wear, and tbh I’m trying not to be that bf, but goddamn you don’t always have to show skin when you’re out, especially when it’s 25 degrees out and it’s new years and other women are in pretty dresses.
Idk how to feel, any advice will be helpful. Thank you
TL;DR gf always dresses very revealing, finally called her out on it, and now idk how to feel and need advice