Wanted to start off by saying Happy New year! I hope you have a great year.
I F23 and my bf M25 have been together for 4 months. I visit and stay at his place often because we are long distance. He lives with a few roommates, one being his best friend/practically brother. They have been close since middle school and my bf spends the holidays with his friend’s family.
Anyways, over the 4 months his friend has gotten a little friendly? I guess you could say. He has called me beautiful a few times, one time my bf over heard and he shut it down immediately. I want to say sometimes I catch him looking at my breasts but I really hope that’s just in my head.
Last night we were at a new year’s party and his friend put his hand on my leg when we were sitting next to each other. I immediately grabbed it and put it back in his lap. He said something along the lines of “why did you do that?” I was drunk. I didn’t respond I just stood up and left the room.
I genuinely don’t know what to do. I don’t want to tell my bf if this is all in my head. I don’t want to cause a rift between him and his best friend. Do I say something? Do I keep all of this to myself? Do I talk to the friend privately?
tldr
I think my boyfriends friend is into me but I don’t know how to handle the situation without causing tension