I respect my bf but when we started dating he wanted to get serious about life instead of keep on the path of doing drugs/ going to raves. I agreed to going to a few raves with him just to see what it’s like. This just made me feel so awkward when he told her he loves her too. 🤷‍♀️


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  2. That’s what ppl on drugs do. Drinks too. Don’t mistake something “in the moment” for more than what it was

    If it was a male, would you react the same?

  9. You should revisit your text there is a lot of missing context… But also just sound like an ecstasy love dove kind of momment?

    Don’t listen to this people just jumping into “it is not okay” conclusions.

    When was this said? Which circumstances? It seems that you feel like “i love you” has a sexual connotation… are you sure it has? Have you talked with them about it?

  11. if they were on E that’s just what happens. if they weren’t on anything that’s mad disrespectful. either way you should tell him about how you didn’t like it because the behavior can be changed no matter if it was drugs or his own impulses that caused it

  12. He says he wants to get serious about life and stop taking drugs and going to raves, so… you go to a rave with him?

    Why?

    What does it matter whether you know what it feels like if he’s meant to quit it? He’s not going to quit it.

  14. Female friends were off the table in both of my LTRs, not that I cared about it or needed any. Guess that’s what my exes feared lol.

    But most importantly I think we need to start with why you’re okay with your “boyfriend” doing drugs. as in why you’re not walking away, yesterday. And with why you two were at a raves in the first place, personally it isn’t the first place I think about when I think about relationship-friendly places.

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