Wife keeps calling me by a cute name I hate, I told her not to call me by that but she still does it. She usually does it when she is hurt. For instance I wanted 2 hours of alone time by myself, and she didn't like it so she called me by the name I hate being called by. She later said she did it on purpose to hurt me.
I don't want to spend every night with my wife, I want to watch some movies by myself, play video games, drink some beer, go running.
Do I like my wife? From a scale of 1-10 I would say currently after 5 years of marriage around 6. I am thinking of my ex-es more often than not and considering I might have made a mistake marrying her. I remember I got a lot more respect from my previous girlfriends, I was not obligated to do stuff I did not want to do, I had friends I just generally felt happier.
Our kids hate her, they don't respect her anymore. She otherwise thinks she is a good, perfect mom and prefect wife who rarely makes mistakes and everyone else is to blame. Kids don't listen to her, even more than once told her they wished she was dead.
I am envisioning my life without her, getting a divorce and I think it would be easier.
I would be working, taking care of the kids, maybe going out on some dates again. I really miss women, meeting other women, romancing with them, being in love with them, spoiling them. I have so much resentment towards my wife I just can't put myself in the romance position anymore.