We’ve been together for 2 and a half years now. She’s a really good girlfriend but her parents ruin it. Her dad especially hates me. There’s been times where he’s threatened me. On valentine’s day when she came home with gifts he got my phone number called me and tried to come to my house to “talk”. He’s really controlling as he still has parental controls where he can see who she calls on imsg and he can see who she texts. We’ve resorted to only talking through instagram. He doesn’t let her go out at all. I’ve never seen her past 4pm. I only see her on school days but now that we are in college i rarely ever see her. Her dad told me once she turned 18 he would let her go out but he wasn’t a man of his word. I’ve waited really long for her and i don’t know if i can continue. I can’t stop thinking that i’m wasting my time being with her. I want to be able to experience normal relationship activities but i can’t. I get really envious seeing other couples and friends being able to do things with their s/o while i sit at home. We were both our first intimate partners. I see a future with her but i don’t know if it’s worth waiting for i dont know how much longer.
Tl:DR: Her parents don’t let her go out and i can’t keep waiting.