Hello I am a (44 f) and I’ve been with my husband (47 m) for a little over 26 years I am having a really hard time right now trying to get my husband to pleasure me I do whatever he wants in the bedroom but it seems like he just don’t want to bother with my needs a desires just recently I talked to him about my feelings and it seems like he just shrugs it off it feels like he just don’t listen to simple advice and directions on what I want so I told him until he starts paying “attention” to me first that we will just take care of ourselves from now on and it don’t seem like he was bothered about that I always initiate the first moves I get him aroused and please him in anyway he wants but he don’t return the favor I don’t know what I’m doing wrong is it wrong to want attention am I looking to far into this what should I do or is it pretty much over and now I’m in a sexless relationship?