Well, first of all, I'm 22 and a woman. I have vaginismus (a condition where the vaginal walls close up, causing intense pain), but I love oral sex, masturbation, being touched, and all that. But I'm completely single. I haven't had sex in four years, and to be totally honest, I masturbate every few days.
The problem of not having a partner is making me a little desperate in that regard. Could it be my body type? To be honest, I'm chubby and short. What should I do?