I got mad at my boyfriend because he told me he was hanging out with friends on Sunday, and then he didn’t text me for over 12 hours. He said he woke up and his phone was broken and that he was “decompressing” during the day, that’s why he didn’t ask anyone for a phone to send me a text either. We talked about it and I’m still mad. Yesterday he decided he was coming over, I told him I was busy (really, I was working all day), he kept insisting, then said he wanted to bring me christmas presents so he was coming anyway. I had to say no over ten times, until I told him that if he came, it was over. That’s the moment he decided he was going to respect the boundary I set and wait until I wanted to talk to him again. Also, he has been telling me for a month now that he was going to spend New Year’s Eve with his friends, but yesterday after he realized how mad I was he started saying he wanted to spend it with me. The way I see it, he had plenty of time and opportunities to invite me or to make plans with me, so I think this was an attempt to get me to stop being mad. Now I don’t know if I should text him.
What can I do in this situation?
TLDR: my boyfriend kept insisting in coming over and I feel like that crossed a boundary I set