To be clear, I don't have direct evidence of it. Just some behavior that's different than recent times. She's on her phone much longer and she's actively typing and not just scrolling, so she is most definitely talking to someone or just posting comments on random posts online. That's why I don't know for sure.
But the thing that really rose a flag was when I found her in the garage by herself and her phone and was quick to hide her phone and wander around as if she was looking for something. When I asked her why she was there by herself she didn't answer and just walked past and went back in the house. Haven't confronted her about that strange behavior yet.
Thoughts were crossing my mind that she might have been talking to someone and keeping it a secret. My first thought was cheating but again I'm level headed and I stick to innocent until proven guilty. But thinking about the idea that she was cheating on me felt more like an interesting thing for her to have be doing since it doesn't feel like that's something she would do.
Things have been rough with us this past year and we haven't had much communication and intimacy especially having two young kids. But yeah I just didn't know how to feel about the idea that she might be cheating and I was not heartbroken, or excited, or relieved. Just… Interesting….