I'm a sex worker (escort) in my mid 30s so it isn't for lack of exposure but I don't understand the draw to porn at all, and if anything I feel like I'm missing out. I can't get past the knowledge that I'm seeing someone at work doing their job. They may be enjoying it regardless but it looks so fake I find it hard to suspend my disbelief. It just seems deeply un-erotic and lacking in anything I'd find stimulating or engaging; the dynamics are boring, the sex looks like the performers are just going through the motions, I don't get the feeling that there's any real carnal desire there.. what am I not getting here?