I (25f) and my bf (23m) are both switches but heavily lean sub. Also he doesn’t want to do it very often due to anxiety and overstimulation. We are both bi but I feel like I can take the role of a straight partner in a relationship, idk about him. I love him but there’s a disconnect, I’m not sure if we’re going to mainly stop trying as much or if it’s a compatibility issue or if we should like find a way. Doesn’t help that there’s a trans girl in our friend that keeps lowk flirting with him dominantly. I’m about to snap or something.