Hi I (20M) and my girlfriend (19F) have become each other's firsts a few months ago now.
After several sessions we have tried and I have been unable to cum from head or hand jobs. Always close but never there. Mostly wondering if anyone has experienced this and what they did to fix it if anything.
For clarity I cum very fast from PIV. I even think head feels better than PIV but I cant cum from it. Whether it be me moving, her moving, or me moving her. There have been times where I moan a lot and feel incredible and even start spazzing, more intense than masturbation or PIV but i still dont cum. This happens from both head and hand jobs. We have done hour long sessions before too where I get like this and nothing.
Its frustrating. This happened before I started medication but I started medication recently which has made even PIV difficult. Ive abstained for a few weeks and will try again in a few days but im mostly curious to see if anyone has had this experience before.
Lotterally the most pleasure I've ever felt sexually and yet I do not cum???