I want to start this with My husband loves me and treats me well. We’ve been together for 7 years the first two we were dating and engaged and after that we’ve been married. When we were dating and engaged he’d have stuff delivered to my job, suprise me with flowers and never missed a holiday. But since being married it seems like he stopped. I still go big for him Christmas birthdays, and now Father’s Day. But every year he never gets me anything. I know Christmas isn’t about gifts but I sit and watch my parents and siblings and family members open gifts from their significant others and I just want to cry when they ask me what he got for me. I mean even a card or some crap flowers from Walmart would be something. I’ve been buying myself a new pair of shoes before Christmas every year so I can be like oh he got me these shoes and some clothes or something and they drop it but my heart just sinks. Every year it’s “- bill cost more than I thought it would this month” but here I am sometimes financing his gifts to make it happen; things he’d never buy for himself and I love watching him open them and he turns shell shocked and says thank you and loves on me but then it’s I’m sorry I didn’t get you anything. Every year. Happy birthday! In a text but that’s it. Happy Mother’s Day but that’s it. I just feel left out and like he doesn’t care. I don’t want to say anything because I so badly want him to want to get me something, anything. Without being promoted or seeing me cry or whatever the case. Even if he has 100 dollars and is like well I can buy her a bar of chocolate and make her a card is better than sorry I couldn’t. Because even when I couldn’t I still made it happen.