As the title suggests I (24m) cant seem to get my gf (23f) to finish. For starters this is the first time something like this has happened. Ive had my fair share of sex in the past and not to toot my own horn but Id say (due to feed back from said partners) that I have it down when it comes to both giving oral and penetration. I personally really enjoy pleasing the other person, it gets me off to get them off so when Ive had sex in the past Ive always made it a thing that I want to get them to orgasm at least once before I finish.
So the thing with my gf is Ive tried everything in my bag, but I cant seem to get her to the finish line. She has stated that when she concentrates an uses her vibrator alone, that she is able to finish so Im not sure if its maybe an anxiety thing on her end or if maybe Im not as good as i had been told LOL. A lot of the times shes the one that initiates the whole shpeal but I do feel like shes not fully relaxed sometimes and so Ive tried extending foreplay and teasing but that also has not worked.
Wondering if anyone has any tips or knowledge theyd like to share cause although she says she doesnt have to finish and that us doing it is all she needs… i have my doubts 🧐 i think shes just being nice about it cause personally if i was practically edged every time we had sex with no completion i would die lmao