Do you have any sexual desires that you carry some resentment towards your spouse because they are not meeting? Initiating sex and wearing lingerie has become a point of resentment for me because we have the conversation so many time that it now feels intentional. I am no longer even trying to ask about my desires because that leads to more frustration when they go unmet or it's done to check off the box. What is a sexual desire you have that your spouse does not meet?