I'm a M22 and I am considering marriage in a couple of years time however I am kind of confused on what sort of stuff I need to work on. However please don't judge me but correct me however this is the type of stuff I have written down for marriage. Please tell me if these are the right things and if I missed anything let me know. What I have researched and written down in my notes is you need to have strong emotional intelligence i.e the ability to stay calm in situations, able to control your emotions around others and your wife, having some form of independance and able to take initative in your own life, having a good personality/charismatic, having a good physique which includes knowing how to fight and protecting your family, having strong faith by your side, having a good career and knowing how to take care of your finances, providing for your wife, helping your wife around the house i.e with cleaning, cooking etc, being quite brave/confident/taking risks, taking care and grooming yourself correctly, taking her on dates and not letting her pay for stuff (I'm not too sure on that one),
These are the ones I got however I would say I meet the physique one and taking care of my family. Am I missing anything else or are these the main points I got? Can you guys give me your experiences on what you worked on before getting married and if you had a checklist?