I’m looking for advice on how to navigate the difficult situation as i’ve spoke to him and given him the chance to tell her but he can’t bring himself to tell her.
I [22M] have been best friends with both the guy [22M] and the girl [22F] for the past 9 years. They was in a relationship for around 2-3 years and during that he told me that he had been cheating multiple times with different women.
Recently she started asking me the question directly whether i know anything. i have tried to avoid the question to allow me some time to speak to him first for him to confess, which he is certain on not doing.
I’m preparing on telling him if you don’t tell her by a certain time i’m going to tell her, as i have gave him a fair chance too.
How do i do this in a way that maintains appropriate boundaries?
How much detail is appropriate?
How do i respond with anger from both sides?
TL;DR
I know my male best friend cheated multiple times on my female best friend. She’s asking me directly, and I want advice on how to communicate this information clearly and responsibly.