I (21M) have been seeing my gf (19F) for about 3 months now. When I first met her, we clicked right away. I’ve never had this energy with anyone – we could be talking for hours and not be bored. I was insanely attracted to her and was always excited about seeing her. However, lately it totally shifted. Now I’m honestly indifferent about seeing her, I’m not really attracted to her as much, the little things i found cute in the beginning are now taking a toll on my mental health (e.g. her getting mad over something small, I may be weird for liking it at first, but I initially thought it meant she cared deeply).
I’ma not overly excited about building a future together with her. Quite frankly, I’m pretty hesitant about it.
Despite all of that, my effort doesn’t change – I contribute to the relationship as much if not more than before. And she does the same.
She really is an amazing person with a huge heart and I’m afraid of hurting her. I’m honestly scared to take any steps because I know I might regret it later. I know I might sound emotionally immature, but I’m trying my best to fix this.
What would you guys do?