I've looked up if there was a conversation about that already but there isn't. I (F) have a first date with a guy tomorrow.
I checked his Instagram, and he seems to travel A LOT and to do a lot of activities. Given his job, I wouldn't be surprised if he earns double my salary.
I'm not tight financially, but I can't splurge either. I'm an independent woman, and I'm not really looking for a partner with a certain salary. I never really cared about that.
But now that I see all the activities and travelling he does, and since I'm looking for a long-term partner (and I feel like I'm going to like him), I'm a bit stressed.
How do you keep up with someone who earns way more than you in terms of activities and dates? I never expected the men I see to invite me, usually we take turns and I prefer that. Is there a way to reconcile two very different incomes? I'm a bit stressed ever since I saw his Instagram.