I’ll try to keep it short:
husband has BPD or at the minimum depression and mania cycles. two completely different people. he’s so so mean. hates our children and myself. says he wants nothing to do with us.
however. when he flips personalities he tells me if I leave he will try to take the kids from me??? so im completly stuck.
hes never watched the kids alone succesfully. i cannot work outside the home and im afraid to get a divorce because the kids aren’t safe with him. at least staying I can remain in their lives. what do I do? no one has any idea im going through this. I don’t know what to do.