I’m feeling frustrated because it feels like everywhere I turn I’m being met with avoidance.
One guy DMed me and was flirting with me then suddenly stopped. He’s followed me for years, we matched on hinge years ago, I was thinking okay, maybe now the timing is better because he reached out. I haven’t heard from him.
One guy I met through work 3 years ago. We talked on and off for a year but ultimately he cut it off because his boss told him he’d be fired if he dated me. (Very tragic, I loved him). I have a different job now where I travel to his city often. We met up when I went the first time and got drinks. The second time he invited me over to his house and he made me a drink, flirted with me and asked me to stay the night and initiated intimacy twice. Was so warm and sweet in the morning and kissed me multiple times as I walked out the door. Haven’t really heard much from him.
One guy I met in March and we talked for a bit. He has a job that required him to suddenly be deployed without notice. Didn’t hear from him for months and then he reached out that he was back and he’d make time to call me that week and never did. He disappeared again.
One guy DMed me a bit and asked me on a dinner date and then never followed through.
I’m not smothering these guys. I’m pretty upbeat and go with the flow. But I’m feeling a bit aggravated now because I feel like they are being inconsiderate of my feelings. I didn’t ask them to do these things. They didn’t have to reach out if they didn’t want to. And if they aren’t feeling it, it’s not that hard to just say that. Why do men do this??