Edit: to anyone who wants to comment my concern shouldnt be getting remarried right now. Its not. I never said it was. My kids and my healing are my priority. I only addressed it because I do know it is something WILL desire down the road and I can be aware of that while also having it way on the back burner with zero intentions of doing anything right now
Been married 6yrs and have 2 kids, toddler and newborn. Long story short there is a pattern or abuse. Been raped, choked, pinned, scratched. Finally left after the last incident and he has charges against him and proof of violence. Im still scared he'll fight for 50/50 with the kids and somehow get more than he ought to. Hes not patient with them when they scream or when hes gaming.
Also wondering, how hard is it to get remarried with kids in the picture? My kids are super young, but I still fear I wont get remarried as I really want moee kids ans to experience genuine love without fear. Ladies that left their first marriage, how hard was it to find someone else? Men do you guys generally avoid single moms even if they have a valid reason why they are single moms?