So my husband and I have been going through a rough patch. Basically since having kids 6 years ago. We have two now.
The past two years has been the worst. We are in marriage counseling, have been going for 6 months. It seems to have helped.
I think a lot of what got us here was unmet needs and expectations.
Anyway, I’ve been told by multiple people randomly over the last year or two that we need to go to church. That simply going to church will get us headed in the right direction to actually get through this and work things out basically.
Yesterday, he told me he’s heard the same from numerous people.
We both believe in God but we don’t really talk about it and it’s not a significant part of our daily lives. I go to church off and on because I grew up going to church but for some reason it’s pretty uncomfortable for me. Maybe I haven’t found the right one idk. My husband has gone with me once.
I guess I’d like to hear what other couples have experienced. Thanks