I'm a male in my mid 20s, interested in women. I feel like none of my sexual interests are permanent. One day I feel kinda interested in being submissive, other days I feel vanilla, others I feel basically asexual. I've tried being a sub before full time and I was miserable. Most of my experiences with kink in general have been pretty bad. But still, I find myself having certain sexual cravings, even of things I know I don't actually enjoy doing. Is there a term for people like me? Besides "a mess?" I don't know what to do, to lean towards my kinky side which has caused me not much besides stress and misery, or away, which in a way denies what I actually feel sometimes? I know that being a full on sub isn't for me, but it's not really common for women who are kinky to only be partially into it, and it's not fair to ask a potential partner, kinky or otherwise, to settle for less than what satisfies them sexually. Just a little confused I guess.