I am a newly married F(30) with him M(30). For me love language is talking, about how I feel and how I am liked , how I like him. That excites me a lot. I have conveyed this a lot too many times to him but he doesn't get it. He just starts and wants me to actively participate. Since this has happened a lot, I no longer tell him him to talk to me. He has also not shown any progress towards it. Naturally I don't feel like doing it but still I do cz that's his basic right in a marriage. I have eventually settled and no longer want this and still do it cz I have to. He never noticed that I am not that excited.
If I bring it up sometimes during fight he says it's my fault I don't love him, I am pretending and he is hurt and bla bla. So I have stopped bringing it up. I just don't know what to do.
Please suggest genuinely cz I want to save my marriage.