i have no idea what’s going on and if it should cause concern. recently my boyfriend has said that i “feel too good” and this is why he’s only lasting a few minutes. that could be the case since i’m working out a lot more and i’ve heard that makes your stuff tighter hehe. he also doesn’t masturbate, like, AT ALL so he’s more sensitive to sex anyway. and maybe sex is just better because we’re getting emotionally closer? idk. the fact is, he’s busting fast these days.
however, what is truly odd to me is that he also gets “sore” after he climaxes. like, so sore, he can’t do another round. and he stays sore for literally hours or even the rest of the day. he says it’s because he came so hard, his “dick muscles” are tired but uh idk how scientific that is.
in general, he does a lot for me and i’m usually satisfied despite the short-lived banging. but i kind of wish we could make love longer, because it feels rushed and sometimes one-sided because of this. i also hate to think he’s experiencing any pain or discomfort and i’ve literally never heard a man say he’s sore after sex, especially after every time. what could be going on and how can we help it?
important to note that he doesn’t particularly like sex toys or masturbation but he’s open to using them if needed.