Recently found out that my husband has been buying drugs like cocaine and adderral from a dealer behind my back. He’s been using adderral to concentrate at work and cocaine recreationally when he’s with the boys.
This dates back five years ago before we got married and I am now finding out. We also have a 3 year old son.
This also explains his constant mood swings and bouts of anger (he breaks things at home when he’s mad).
I am the breadwinner in our family so I have the means to support myself on my own. However, I am considering an in-home separation first to allow him to work on himself. We are in couples therapy but I don’t think it’s enough.
What advice would you give if you were in my situation? Should I consider an in-home separation first or just leave?