I started masturbating when I was 12 years old. And when I started, I used a technique I learned on my own. I would squeeze my perineum with my left hand and sit on it, and with my right hand I would masturbate, but I would start before I had an erection and wouldn't let enough blood go to my penis to get a full erection.
And when I did that, I was able to masturbate to climax, and when I got there, I couldn't ejaculate, but I felt the pleasure of when you ejaculate. I could feel my PC muscles automatically twitching, spontaneously trying to make me ejaculate without success. And that pleasure was constant, without stopping, warming my whole body, my heart pounding like crazy, pre-ejaculate kept leaking out and my mind going blank. It was so good, and I could do it for as long as I wanted. And the next day, many times I even had a headache.
But when I turned 13, the technique stopped working (I don't know why). Every time I tried to do it, I ended up ejaculating right at the beginning. And that discouraged me from any sexual activity ever since, even now that I'm older. When I start to feel significant pleasure, it's always when I'm about to ejaculate, but now I can't extend that moment like before. And now I can only feel pleasure for a very short time, it's very moderate, not that I don't like it, but it's very unsatisfying for me.
I tried to find some other technique that would give me the pleasure I was looking for, but almost everything I found was about how to stay erect longer or reduce my refractory period, but that's not my problem. I want to extend my pleasure time. The only thing I found that people said would give the result I wanted was orgasm through prostate stimulation. It works to get me hard, but I never achieved an orgasm with it, and I always felt uncomfortable and it hurt me.
And I tried Kegels, but it's just not the same; what makes you feel most of the pleasure is the PC muscles contracting on their own. When I squeeze them to stop them from moving, it generates much less pleasure.
That's why I came here to ask for help to find a way that I could experience multiple intense orgasms for as long as I want again pls, preferably without anal stimulation.
And sorry if I wrote anything wrong, I'm not very good at English.