Hi everyone I love my husband i really do but im tired of my life. The constant grind to make ends meet or the fact im always stuck in the house. I don't think I can't do this any longer. We've been in such a rut for 3 years sucks. Doesn't seem long but im just tired. Tired of the judgements and the fact we never can plan a game night without him being such a party pooper. Everything has been about his comfort. Yet I feel like I always have to compromise. He plays hours on online games with his online friends can go days but 2 hrs with my sis and her boyfriend is too much. I don't know what to do. We haven't been out on a date in years and we've only been married for 3. This post is so convoluted but I feel alot. Any advise on how to change?