TLDR: boyfriend went out and got a girls number while drunk, doesn’t remember. I’m trying to stay but not sure if the trust can be rebuilt.
Two months ago my boyfriend (been together 4 years) went out drinking with buddies and got super wasted and does not remember the night. I got a text from one of his friends saying my boyfriend got a girls number and is super drunk, but that’s all the friend said and he then told me that’s all the info he has.
The next day when I confronted him he had deleted the girls number and pretended like it didn’t happen. When I showed him the message I received he admitted he thinks he got a girls number but doesn’t remember much. What’s killing me is there’s no concrete story and probably never will be, and the same friend said I should be sceptical but won’t tell me more. My boyfriend says it was a big mistake and he was so drunk he doesn’t remember, and keeps apologizing. He keeps trying to fix things but the little part of me just thinks this is the start of him going out and doing things like this. I am heartbroken and my self worth is in the gutter. Is there something I can do to feel comfortable again? Has anyone stayed after trust has been broken and been able to rebuild it fully?