Me and my wife are 33 and 29. We've been married almost 10 years. Our sexual life has always been lead by me and the last 5 years or so it's only been going because of me. If I didn't ask then it wouldn't happen 90% of the time and the other 10% she makes me feel like she only asks because of me. We get on other than this but it's a real rot at our core. I have spoken to her and been as honest as possible year after year trying to figure out a way past it. But she never makes an effort. Never listens to what I ask or any advice I give to try and change the situation. She loves me unconditionally but at this point I feel like I may as well live with a best mate rather than a lover. Im at the end of my tether and I need some real advice on what to do going forward. I love her and we get along but the fact we have no sexual relationship and for no fault of my own I don't know what the next step is. Any advice welcome.