I've had ADHD, and it's always been difficult maintaining erections, so sex was always difficult for me. But lately I've found i no longer get hard at all. I'm with women I'm very attracted to, i just don't get hard.
I was talking about this to a female friend and they say that this is the case with most men they've had sex with above 40.
Is this a universal experience? I've been having a lot of self-doubt in recent times because of this… So I'd love thoughts from both men above 40, and women who've been with men above 40.