So when husband and I met, we were very very active in the bedroom. Several times a day, oral etc. I also didn’t have my kids every other week, and we now have a full time 22 month old.
Also, I had a legal issue and I can’t drink for 12 months (10.5 months left). The sober life is good, but I’m just not interested in intimacy. I’d be fine with couple times a month. Previously I’d have 2-3 glasses and be very turned on. Now I’d rather read. Sleep. Clean. Relax.
He’s frustrated but he also wanted me sober and he acts like I should be like when we met, but again I was often child free half the time and able to cut lose and drink wine and I can’t now. Obv I don’t want to give random hour long Blow jobs or do a sex marathon 🙄
Anyone else go through this? I’m just not turned on now that I’m sober and busy. If I relax I want to relax not have sex or give him oral