21M, Pan/Bi.
While I don't really have a hard time giving blowjobs (got the same equipment, know what's good and what's not), it's cunnilingus I really struggle with. I LOVE it, I love giving it but I just don't feel I'm that good at it. I get some praise for it but I feel it's just girls being nice, not wanting to hurt my ego and whatnot. But I get the most pleasure out of others pleasure, so it means a lot to me if I can give them a good time. I've tried a few different things, things that have seemingly been well recieved (bit more noise, shakes and spasms) but I'm still quite inexperienced. I was with this girl, and she seemed quite frustrated afterwards. Like I underperformed and didn't quite get her there. I was afraid to ask honestly… but that's on me tbf I should've been more communicative and asked more questions. I use flat tongue, full length of vulva, as well as gentle clitoris suction, which when I did this the first time she seemed to enjoy it. Is there anything else I could be doing? Any better techniques I could be using? Whilst I don't expect to finish every girl with oral alone, I would just at least like to guarantee that they enjoy it every time. I find it so fun… and want them to enjoy receiving it as much as I enjoy giving it.